Dating an aloof guy
Sure I can, but I don't feel like trying too hard either.
However, I still prefer face to face conversation and want to keep texting minimal.
I gotta say this, aloof is kinda good at the start cuz as a female you kind of get bombarded.
The guys with some self control, not reeking of neediness and desperation, who still show reasonable interest, they put us at ease.
But, when in a social setting, I have to force myself to be very forward, to introduce myself, to speak up, make jokes, offer compliments, ask questions.
I'm not afraid to talk to women who I find attractive.